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), and every now and again someone writes a crazy long first message, which no matter how specific it is to my profile, can come across equally badly as it reads a bit OTT!

(Literally just got a message saying ‘ whilst typing this blog post – perfect timing!!

I chose the tag line ‘The first rule of Plenty of Fish …

I wanted to use a site where the guys would be relatively similar to me – ‘normal’ people, who socialise, live normal, fun, active lives, and are confident enough talking to the opposite sex, but who just want to widen their social ‘net’.

In six or so months online dating, before everything with Henley Boy, I had only met up with one guy for a date. and if they get past that initial filter, then I also like to think I’m a pretty good judge of character, so if anything in their first few messages comes across as a bit odd, I normally sever all conversations.

Henley Boy was the second ever guy from a dating website I gave my phone number to. a site I picked, because it seemed like a site that ‘normal’ guys used.

Most of the messages I get on POF suggest I probably didn’t need to take so much care with my profile.

In fact, on my first date with Henley Boy (even though we chatted every day for a week before meeting up) he admitted to not having properly read my profile, and just looking at the pictures!

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